RIP Martha, who passed away on Aug 8, 2009 from Primary Peritoneal Cancer.
Monday, November 16, 2009
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
How much life changes in one year
Just a few days before mom's Monday operation I was on the phone with her as I was getting ready to go to a friend's wedding. She was trying to sound upbeat and interested about what I was wearing and who would be there etc. But in the middle of talking she burst into tears and said she was just in so much pain. I remember telling her that Monday was just a few days away and wasn't it good that she would be having the operation so her pain would go away. Little did we know that it would only go away after a hellish year of treatments, all to end with her moving on to the next life. I would probably have spit in anyone's face if they'd told me that then.
Life changes so quickly. One second can determine the rest of your life, let alone a day, week, month or year. I am so bitter about cancer and always will be. One thing despite it all that I'm happy about is all the time I got to spend with mom this past year. Thank God for my teaching job and the schedule that allowed me to go to Florida so frequently. We had some bad times and some good times and some fun. We got to talk a lot about what matters most in life.
Don't put off for tomorrow what you can to do today. Tell your family you love them. Call up an old friend. Let go of grudges. Try something you've always want to. Help someone. Smile. Laugh. Live. Because next year you-or they may not be around anymore.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Attention all Floridians!
She lead an amazing life on earth
and is now tending to new gardens in her heavenly home
Come celebrate her life, her journey, her legacy ...
Saturday, September 19, 2009
10 a.m.
The Pavilion on Lemon Bay across from Englewood Beach
Behind 1855 Gluf. Blvd.
Refreshments and fellowship following
at Martha's favorite local spot:
Gulfview Grill
2095 N. Beach Rd.
Aloha wear encouraged!
Monday, September 14, 2009
Walk to Break the Silence 2009
Friday, September 4, 2009
Friday, August 28, 2009
It's hard to believe . . .
Here is an excerpt from an email from Mom:
"My body is producing too much estrogen which is making a fibroid tumor (NO CANCER) in my uterus to grow (size of a tangerine) and cause the pain I have been experiencing. Stress related! No surprise. What I wasn't prepared for was the doctors recommendation of a hysterectomy!
Then on Monday I received a call from my gynecologist that my I have an abnormal pap smear result (atypical glandular cells) and that I need to have two biopsies. Uterus and Cervix. In the mean time I have a return check up with my gastro. Dr. and he advises me to go off the aleve/ibuprofen regiment that I was taking to control the pain. Toxic! I felt as though I was 10 months pregnant and I thought I was going to burst."
Even modern medicine isn't fool proof.
Know your symptoms.
Help spread the word.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Sunday, August 23, 2009
National Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month!
...On her birthday: Friday Sept 4, 2009
September is National Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month
Know your body. Know the symptoms. Help spread the word.
Friday, August 21, 2009
New therapies for ovarian/peritoneal cancers on the horizon . . .
Researchers at MIT are manufacturing tiny artificial viruses out of biodegradeable polymers and injecting them into mice with tumors. The goal is to come up with a treatment for late stage ovarian cancer. And it just might work.
“We’re very excited. We can cure mice. We want to treat people but there are a lot of steps until we get there,” said Daniel Anderson, the lead researcher on the project.
The research is part of the growing field of nanotherapy, a research area that has the potential to create an arsenal of new cancer drugs that attack only the sick cells, leaving the healthy cells alone. It’s a revolution that could some day put an end to the 6 to 8 hours-long chemotherapy infusions, the hair loss and the nausea that are routine for many who battle cancer today.
Ovarian cancer is an elusive therapeutic target. Early detection is rare because the symptoms, like fatigue and abdominal pain, are common to many different illnesses. When a patient is diagnosed, the most common course of treatment is surgery to remove the tumor, followed by chemo. But the tumor often comes back.
Anderson’s treatment involves injecting a nanoparticle, made of an artificial virus and therapeutic DNA, directly into the patient’s peritoneal cavity, which houses organs including the liver, spleen and ovaries. Viruses are good at weaseling their way into cells, so they are a good way to deliver DNA or other therapies in a targeted way, directly into certain cells. But the immune system eventually figures out how to battle real viruses, so Anderson makes his from biodegradeable polymers. The nanoparticle delivers a gene that is engineered to kill cancer cells and leave others alone. Anderson said, “The ultimate goal is for the treatment to replace chemotherapy, but in the early stages we will look toward advancing the treatment as part of a combination therapy.”
MIT’s Anderson and his team are looking to partner with another academic institution to do a Phase 1 clinical trial for their ovarian cancer treatment in humans over the next year to two years. His team has also been in contact with potential corporate partners. The team would then file an Investigational New Drug application with the U.S. Food and Drug Administration, which is the first step in a long regulatory process.
Saturday, August 8, 2009
Martha's Memorial Services
St Matthews Episcopal Church
Narragansett Avenue
Jamestown Rhode Island
Tuesday, August 11th 2009
2pm
Interment to follow at Cedar Cemetery in Jamestown
Reception at 64 Pemberton Avenue
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Englewood Beach/Gulf View Grill
Englewood Florida
Saturday September 19th 2009
10am
A New Journey Begins
Martha Coburn Clarke Kinnecom
September 4, 1958 - August 8, 2009
Living between the Heavenly sunshine and flowers......
Friday, August 7, 2009
mom is the energizer bunny.
after 3-4 days of constant sleeping under magic-morphine, we sit and wait.
and wait.
and wait.
last night we all camped out in the living room listening to her breathing. it was (this entire experience is) surreal.
today, a flock of birds visited near the window -- a ginormous bluejay, several cardinals, a woodpecker, chickadees, and a beaaaautiful goldfinch. we haven't seen that many birds at one time since we've been in jamestown. so, naturally, we all thought they were coming to take mom!! maybe they were coming to chit chat and prepare her.
the hospice nurse said goodbye to us today because she doesn't think she'll be back tomorrow. pray for mom's safe journey and magnificent welcoming committee, whenever she decides to go.
love,
k & k
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
Monday, August 3, 2009
The hospice nurse increased the amount of pain medication Mom is taking from ALOT to ALOT MORE. She is also now taking an anti-anxiety pill, and the combination has created a sleepy, dreaming, hallucinating, twitching, and relatively peaceful and painless Mom.
This morning she insisted on brushing her teeth, so Kim and I helped her in the bathroom while she nodded off and on. She has been determined to take care of herself and not "miss anything" for her entire journey with this cancer. Today was the first day she slept downstairs and the first day she didn't take a shower. Mom commented that the house felt like a cookoo farm. We dressed her in a Hawaiian print dress and she is now sleeping on the hospital bed overlooking the birdfeeder.
One of Doug's cousin's shared this passage with me and I'd like to pass it along:
2 Corinthians 4: 14-18
Therefore we do not lose heart, though our outer man is decaying, our inner man is being renewed day by day. For momentary, light affliction is producing for us an eternal weight of glory far beyond all comparison, while we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen, for the things which are seen are temporal- but the things which are not seen are eternal.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
7/29 Update
Yesterday morning she was particularly weak and loopy. She'd fall asleep in the middle of saying something. She doesn't want help getting upstairs (about 15 stairs?) or in the bathroom yet. She's pretty stubborn (I can't blame her) and is desperately trying to hold on to taking care of herself and feeling some sense of normalcy. Yesterday the Hospice social worker came over to talk with Mom and Dad and another Hospice person delivered a hospital bed. Mom wanted the bed next to the windows so she can look out and see the birds/bird feeder and feel the fresh air.
Katie and I went back to Boston for only a couple of hours yesterday to pick up some clothes etc. and stopped by Katie's work so she could sign a leave form.
We had a lovely visit over the weekend with Katie's in-laws Warren and Jean from the Chicago area. They were able to spend some time with the family and also discover where our family is from.
Sunday Nana arrived and is staying in a basement apartment at a friend of the family. Katie and I took her to visit Papa's grave at the Veterans Cemetery yesterday and then to buy a new purse. I am so relieved that she's here.
Over the weekend we also had several special food deliveries from all sorts of friends. Some of Katie's friends from Boston brought several pans of homemade lasagna rolls (the new wave of lasagna!), mac & cheese, cupcakes, salad, loaves of bread, gallons of beverages, and best of all, disposable plates and utensils! Other family friends brought homemade soup and casseroles. Their generosity and thoughtfulness was so great. Funny to think that going to the grocery store and meal planning could ever be challenging... but it is such a relief to open the fridge or freezer and not have to think. (It is sort of full now though.)
This evening mom's uncle Ricky from California arrives and also her college roommate Maura from Maryland. Tomorrow a long-time family friend, Margaret, who lives in California arrives. A week from Friday Randy arrives from N.C., and Uncle David and Aunt Fairlie from Utah. Others are contemplating visits. Lots of people love mom (us too) and being very supportive!
Mom continues to receive cards and flowers which brighten up her days. She really loves getting cards and hearing from people. If anyone wants to send her a note the address here in Jamestown is:
64 Pemberton Ave.
Jamestown, RI 02835
Please pass along the address to anyone else who may want it!
Sunday, July 26, 2009
We made it to Beavertail
Friday, July 24, 2009
July update
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Update
Saturday, July 11, 2009
Doxil #2
So many friends have stopped by! Here are some photos from the last 7 days.. .enjoy!
Mom and Bobby- still matching hairdo's!
Bobby asked Mom when the last time she had a part was. She responded, "3rd or 4th grade!"
We all got chowdah and clamcakes from Chopmist Charlies and went up to Beavertail!
What a treat.
Mom also had visits from Don & Epsey, Louise & Eddie, Kathy B, cousin Susanne... who took Mom for a ride in her Miata! It has been a full week, and so amazing to see the love and support from all our friends and family. Thank you all so much for continuing to believe in Mom as she fights this battle, running uphill.
Monday, July 6, 2009
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Mom has an appointment with her new summer oncologist tomorrow and another round of Doxil chemo on Wednesday. Her CA-125 is rising and pain near/on her liver is escalating. Mom also has aches from her neck to her toes. Let's all hope this chemo stops her cells from dividing...PRONTO!
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Happy July 1.... photos and observations
@ Gulf View Grill
Mom got in the pool on Saturday (and then took a nap)
Mom checking out a comfy rocker at Mr. T's on Friday
I really can't emphasize how many curve balls and ups and downs cancer throws. Every day is different, and there are highs and lows throughout every day. The new chemo (Doxil) mom is on now wears her out, but it's very evident that she's not letting it get her down completely. Between the chemo and the regular shot mom's getting, her appetite is completely bizarre, energy level pretty low, and lot of random nausea, but the anti-nausea medicine does help out.
I think if I had to rate my overall observations from diagnosis - now, I would rate the two weeks I was here at Christmas as the lowest point I saw. When I was here in February mom was having a tough time, but seemed to be doing better than she was in December. During my April visit, mom was at her best. I think now she's somewhere in between. When Katie was here a few weeks ago mom was having a heck of a time to say the least and I think she's come a long, long way in just a few weeks. (Plus the blood transfusion on Thursday really helped out a lot.) Mom's spirit is amazing and she's working hard at trying to feel good, staying positive as much as possible and making daily goals (despite taking all her pills, getting her shots, vomiting, and spending a lot of time on the couch).
Her newest goal is to get on an airplane on Saturday, July 4 to Rhode Island to visit family and friends, and escape the crazy-hot Florida weather that really restricts what she can do. Her next chemo is scheduled for July 8 in Rhode Island.
For now, we all continue with taking everything one day at a time.
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Stuff
Forever family friends Becky, Phelps and ET will be driving down from the Bradenton area to come hang out at the hospital with us for a while. In the meantime dad will be at the dentist embarking on a two-year process to "fix" some issues in his mouth.
Then... later today Nancy will come over for the dandy shot.
Quick recap of yesterday... Went to doctor's office for blood counts, cleaning of port and chat with Dr. Lifton. Everyone at the office is so pleasant and efficient. No wonder mom and dad feel so pleased and relieved with the care they're getting. I am very satisfied!!
More later.
Monday, June 22, 2009
Adventuring out...
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Happy Father's Day...
Saturday...
In the late afternoon mom and dad enjoyed a visit from out of town family who brought a massive supply of yummy taco soup.
Friday, June 19, 2009
Home for two weeks!!
Today I got up around 8:30 and didn't find mom on the couch. I thought maybe she slept in. Naive me. Mom was already up and about in the gardens in the back yard, fixing the bird feeders that the squirrels persistently terrorize. She had a pretty good morning and went on an errand with dad. In the afternoon she watered flowers and didn't get on the couch until much later in the day! This is a big change from the past few weeks and mom seemed very content with having a seemingly better day.
Tomorrow we are anticipating a short visit from out-of-town family if mom is feeling up to it.
I'll try to write summaries while I'm in town until July 1.
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Pics from the week
Getting hydration
Watching the squirrels snatch the birdfeed
Ready to unpack the truck! Dad only found 1 casualty.
With Peggy about to receive Doxil on Wed.
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
New chemo on Wednesday!
"THINK SHRINK" according to Nana!!
What is CA 125?
Cancer Antigen 125 (CA-125) is a protein that is found in greater concentration in tumor cells than in other cells of the body. It is present in greater concentration in peritoneal/ovarian cancer cells than in other cells. It is used as a biomarker.
How is CA 125 measured?
CA 125 is usually measured from a blood sample. It can also be measured in fluid from the chest or abdominal cavity.
What is the normal range for CA 125?
In most laboratories, the normal value is less than 35 U /ml.
Monday, June 8, 2009
This morning Mom didn't feel so great. She felt 'weird all over' and had some recurrent pain in her lower back region that radiates upwards. On our drive to the Oncology Center, she said to both Doug and I, "Well I think this is as good as it's gonna get today."
When we arrived at the Venice Oncology Center for Mom's purple- power port access, Nurse Nancy was kind enough to also give Mom a shot of Relistor, which reduces constipation caused by narcotics. Oh, and it works within five minutes-- so you better be near a toilet!! We had to be at the hospital for fluids and a CBC so Nurse N. CAME OUT to the parking lot and gave Mom the shot IN the car-- and within seconds Doug sped away. It was quite comical! Mom made it to the bathroom at the hospital within 5 minutes and probably lost another inch or two on her slightly distended abdomen. Of course, the nurses all say that Mom's "distended abdomen" is still way flatter than any of theirs!! (true, true)
We lunched in the hospital while Mom got fluids and gawked at the low prices in the cafeteria. My noodles and veggies were 89 cents and 69 cents, respectively, and Doug's stuff was under $2. Mom had soup & salad, and by the time she had finished, exclaimed that she was feeling much better! :)
Nana came by while I drove Doug to SRQ. I came back to the house to find Mom and Nana watching the birds & squirrels in the backyard gardens competing for birdseed. After the 4th try, Nana's car started and she made her way home. Mom was obviously in pain and discomfort, so I tried massaging her back for a little while and then we switched to a heating pad. While she was trying to get comfortable, I started reading her excerpts from I'd Rather Have Chemo Than Take Out the Garbage, written by a breast and ovarian cancer survivor. After one of her "breakthrough" pain pills kicked in, she felt a bit better.
We had home-made pizza with tomatoes and fresh basil from the garden for dinner... walked halfway around the block, and relaxed with a movie.
Mom and Nancy
Mom getting shot in car
Sunday, June 7, 2009
6/7
Friday, May 29, 2009
where did ya come from, where did ya go?
how did most of you land on this site?
percent search term
32 Martha Kinnecom
30 Help Martha Battle Cancer
15 Kim Kinnecom
3.5 Andy Kinnecom
3.5 blogspot peritoneal cancer
2.3 purple power port
1.2 peritoneal cancer spread
1.2 help martha
so, overall... most people know mom :) but others are finding this blog because of the common interest in finding out more information about peritoneal cancer.
Sunday, May 24, 2009
chemo schmemo and other tales of the trade.
The hospital staff has continued to be surprised of Martha's SUPPORT TEAM- they notice a different person with her at most visits!
*sidenote*
Martha goes to the hospital now instead of her Oncology office for insurance reasons. Another post on the ridiculousness of some insurance companies will make its way onto this blog at some point.
Thanks to Nana, Judy D and Martha's godson Christian, & Gail P. for helping out with Martha's frequent trips. (it gives Andy a break!)
- Complete Blood Cell (CBC) Count
- Neupogen: stimulates bone marrow to make more white blood cells
- Doctor's appointment
--> insert frustrating face here <--
M's visit from San Francisco
So, M. came all the way from San Fran to spend time with Martha and helped out alot, too!
M&M planted some colorful mini-roses under Jolie's magnolia tree/garden and M. also escorted Martha to hospital 3x to give Dad a break. They also took a trip down to Boca Grande, our local "island." Here is a photo on the lanai...
Friday, May 22, 2009
Birdwatching and other fun activities . . .
Mema made some dresses for Mom (above is one of them), selected "breathable" hats suitable for summer and birdwatched in the yard. 2110 West Dolphin is a sanctuary for cardinals, red headed flickers, warblers, purple finches, and butterflies. A bald eagle swooped by several times from the nearby preserve. Other more pesky creatures have been invading the bird feeders. Mom and Dad caught the raccoons destroying a replacement feeder that was supposedly raccoon and squirrel-proof. They continue to be a challenge.
Mom looks forward to another visit from Mema and Poppie the week of May 25th. Mema's mission is to alter the dresses so they fit Mom a little better. :)
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Peritoneal Cancer Discussion Board!
Last night, someone posted an email to the discussion group about their mother's primary peritoneal cancer. Already, SIX people responded with details from their own experience. There are upwards of 30 members in the group (so far!)
When people come together, things happen!!
If by sharing your own story helps another person with their treatment journey, part of the Martha C Kinnecom Peritoneal Cancer Foundations' mission is fulfilled. I am so happy that this forum was established for so many reasons. It gives people an outlet, an outlook and a way to feel connected to others that are dealing with primary peritoneal cancer.
http://groups.google.com/group/primary-peritoneal-cancer?hl=en&pli=1
--katie
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
martha update
round # 2 of chemo today . . .
zap those cells!
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Saturday, April 25, 2009
These are the moments I live for...
Thursday, April 23, 2009
4.23.09
Martha has been in tremendous pain for the past several months. The pain is localized in her abdomen and wakes her from sleep at night. Even the strong pain medication she has been taking wasn't doing the job. They increased the dosage, increased the frequency, and still it wasn't touching the pain. One month ago, she went to the oncologist to get another CT--and there weren't any changes in the CT since the CT in Jan. So... she was "in partial remission".
Yesterday Martha was in the hospital for a blood transfusions b/c of low RBCs. Last night, they had to call the oncologist because the pain was so bad. Imagine sand paper constantly scraping the inside of your abdomen and add fire, hot sauce, and really pointy nails (think Cruella Deville). They did a repeat CT scan that revealed the little bumps on her peritoneum have reappeared.
So, she'll get chemo every week for the next few weeks. Let's hope the chemo arrests the growth of these cells and gives Martha some peace of mind, body and spirit. Martha is still fighting this cancer with all she's got!!!!